Whew! The last couple of days were looooong. : )
I don't have time to go into everything, but I can share about a few of the major pieces.
1st - Argentine Weddings

In the US a wedding is LONG if it breaks the 25 minute mark. (Side note - I did a wedding one time that was only about 7 minutes long. Seriously. : ) It was a great wedding but neither the bride or groom liked being in the spotlight. They wanted it short, sweet, & to the point. It was. They're still one of the greatest couples I know. : )
Fact: In Argentina - only the Catholic church is permitted to do a legal religious marriage recognized by the state. That's it.
So, what the couples in other churches have to do is - a 2 ceremony wedding.
1st - A judge does a legal ceremony. It is very short and too the point. It would be even shorter but they literally "fill" it with details like...
"John Smith, groom, single, engineering major, who works at Jones Construction, who lives at 555 Ramon St, San Salvador de Jujuy, District of the Capital, Jujuy, Argentina - son of... dad (repeat details) & mom... (repeat details), etc., etc." - It is almost a little humorous. I guess they want to make sure they have their books straight. Ha.
2nd - A Pastor performs a religious ceremony and they are now married, both in the eyes of the state & of all who want a religious wedding. The religious ceremony is not all that different than most of the weddings I have been too in the USA. The ones I have been to have not had anyone singing or special music, etc - a little different for us.

But then things are just getting started. The reception is reeeeeeeeally long. : )
That is collective culture for you. It is an event. So people come & are there to hang out. They stand around and talk. Then we sit around and talk. Then we sit around and eat. Afterwards we sit around and talk some more. Later we stand around and talk even more. (Are you getting the COLLECTIVE part yet? : )
Our first Argentine wedding, we came prepared to stay for 1 hour & stayed for 3. When we left everyone was like, "What? You're leaving already? Is everything ok?" - Lol. Yes, we're okay - just need to let the kids get home and relax. - This time we were there for 5 hours before we left. We still got the same questions. Ha. We're getting there - adjusting to the culture.
It was a great time. Now that we know what to expect and are adjusting to the culture we enjoy hanging out, talking, taking pics, and being part of the whole. The people are beautiful; precious to us, and we are blessed to be here with them. I even came back later to help take the bride and groom to their home with all the gifts, balloons and more. Most people do not have a car so ours is a huge blessing and well used to help out at times like this. It would have taken 3 taxis to do what we did in 1 trip with our SUV. : )

2nd Intercession -
Afterwards, I hopped on a bus with a group of people from the church to travel an hour to San Pedro, Jujuy, Argentina to go to a Training Session on Intercessory Prayer. In Argentina, they don't mess around. The session went for 3 hours (6 - 9 pm) and then afterwards we had 3 hours to put it into practice. (9 - midnight : ) It was a great time, lots of great material. I had a hard time writing everything down in Castellano fast enough. And my favorite part was the time of prayer and worship afterwards. It's amazing how FAST 3 hours can go by when you're really getting after it. And our part of Argentina needs a LOT more people who will "get after it" in intercession for spiritual breakthroughs.
3rd Titles -
Much of the church world in Latin America (like their culture in general) is super into "titles." Everybody has to be a "somebody." I think it lends credence to listening to what they have to share. I suppose it makes people feel important and like they have a place in the world as well.
At the same time it can be a point of concern and even argument.
Last night there was much talk from "Apostle so & so" or "prophet so & so."
Let me say, I believe in the positions. They are Scriptural, important, and extremely valuable to building up and encouraging the Body of Believers as a whole.
I also think that perhaps in N. America we have lost sight of these positions too much. I believe we have people who operate in their roles, but they prefer to use the title of "pastor" and not draw so much attention to themselves. I am also quite sure that we have seen too many FALSE Apostle/Prophets destroy the image & people don't want to be associated with that.
Here, I think it is the opposite. I think titles are applied and flung around too quickly, too easily. To be sure, there are people here who are the real deal; wonderful leaders who bless and help the Body of Christ in great ways. I just worry that too many people get all emotional and ASSUME titles or BESTOW titles where no title should be given or received - at least not so easily or "flippantly" at times and in certain circles.

I was wondering where the title "SERVANT" has gone. After all, while the Apostles/ Prophets in Scripture did not shy away from their position, responsibilities, or title - they were very quick to refer to themselves over and over in much more humble terms - IE. "Servant/ Bond Servant/ Slave" - of God.
Wow! What if we all put as much time into thinking of ourselves, and referring to ourselves in this manner - "Who me? Yep. I'm just a servant. Nobody special."
After all, Paul the APOSTLE who wrote 1/2 the New Testament referred to himself as 'the least of these." Why shouldn't we? I think it would be a Good Thing. : )
Do I want to do the work of an Apostle (leader in the church/ father of multitudes) - Yes! I just don't want to get a big head. After all, PRIDE still comes before destruction & an ARROGANT SPIRIT before a fall! : )
Have a great day, be blessed by God in order to be a blessings & Stay Humble -
Paz, bendiciones, uncion, y poder en Dios -